Break the chains of victimization by taking ownership of your life. That is the reflection of the day.
I was reflecting on how many people are in jail. They put themselves in jail by becoming a victim of their past and their present. They create these relationships that are extremely damaging but it’s like a cycle. A vicious cycle where you believe that you are a victim. That this person is doing this to you and therefore, you’re not able to really advance. You’re not able to succeed. You’re not able to get out of the marriage. You’re not able to do much. So you get stuck in a jail and you can’t find the key because you are in this space where nothing seems to be able to work and you cannot see at all an opportunity to be able to find the key. So you are stuck and the way that you can recognize that you are in this space is when you continue over and over, when you speak about your current situation, whatever that is. You continue blaming the other person that is around your circle. Whether it is your mother, your husband or significant other, whether it is your job, whether it is your children, your past or the fact that you were abused as a child. Whatever it is, you decide that you’re going to continue bringing it to the present and that you’re not going to get stuck there. It is your responsibility to get unstuck. It is your responsibility to find the key. How do you find the key? This is simple. It is a simple solution but a very difficult one to implement. The solution is that every time you are blaming someone else for what is happening in your life, you point the finger at you and you would say, not blaming yourself, I take responsibility for what is happening to me at this time in my life. I am the creator of my life. I am the one that is responsible for taking the actions that I’m taking. So when you start doing that and then, at the same time, you start to be gentle with yourself. Yes, I can change. Yes, I can do this and I will no longer be a victim. I will no longer allow myself to be a victim because when you are a victim, you will be stuck. So you need to reflect and reset on a daily basis. Be very aware of how you have become or are becoming or you are a victim of everything that is happening in your life. Ultimately, you have in your hands the key to free your soul from this victim mode, rewrite your life and start seeing through the powers of affirmation. You start loving yourself! You start feeding yourself this positive energy in positive affirmations. Then, you are able to reflect,reset and recreate a new life.